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MEDIATION - An Out of court dispute alternative
Mediation Offers Affordable Alternative to Litigation
Divorce mediation offers couples a welcome alternative to traditional adversarial court-based divorce, which typically involves unnecessary stress, conflict, delays and expense. The mediation process provides an avenue for both spouses to speak with a neutral attorney at the same time in order to resolve any disputed issues and move toward a final settlement to dissolve a marriage or domestic partnership.
As an attorney mediator, I will carefully explain your options, and encourage a peaceful, practical solution. Even couples that are sharply divided can find enough common ground through mediation to successfully negotiate and settle their issues out of court, allowing them to move on with their lives.
The cost difference between a mediated divorce and a divorce trial in the California courts is significant. Superior court statistics show trial-based divorces can cost couples as much as ten times more than mediation or other non-adversarial methods. Studies also show that mediated divorces have a more positive impact on families and children involved in the divorce and custody process than litigated divorces.
Many people appreciate the control that mediation gives them over decision-making during the divorce. Matters are decided by the two people involved in the divorce, not by the court, and not by the mediator. You and your spouse make the decisions, the mediator is there to support you in making them. There is also the benefit of creativity and flexibility when it comes to reaching agreements and settlement. Outside of the confines of the court system and the automatic dictates that determine what a retained attorney can and cannot do, divorce mediation offers wide latitude in finding solutions that fit your specific needs, while still meeting all of the necessary legal requirements.
The divorce mediation process also offers greater privacy and confidentiality than a litigated divorce. You never need to appear in court, and your mediation is handled privately via Zoom, Microsoft Teams, or in person.
The mediation process typically involves a single mediator attorney working with both spouses. However, depending on your preferences and specific situation, you may choose to have individual legal representation during mediation sessions, as well as a mediator. My Family Law Solutions can also provide a team of experts such as forensic accountants, pension specialists and others who provided these same services in litigated divorces. The difference is that they act as neutral participants who do not represent either party. This team-based mediation approach can result in tens of thousands of dollars in savings, even in extremely complex cases.
You can learn more about Mediation by scheduling a free consultation.
Uncontested divorce
A Family-Centered Approach to Uncontested Divorce
We believe that ending a marriage doesn’t have to mean creating more conflict—especially when children and shared family values are involved. An uncontested divorce allows couples to work together to reach mutual agreements on important matters such as property division, parenting time, child and spousal support, and more. When both spouses are in agreement, the process becomes less stressful, more cost-effective, and quicker to finalize—allowing families to move forward with dignity and clarity.
We approach every uncontested divorce with compassion, integrity, and a deep commitment to preserving the emotional well-being of everyone involved. Our family-centered focus means we prioritize respectful communication, stability for children, and long-term cooperation between co-parents. From the initial paperwork to the final judgment, we guide you through each step with the care and attention your family deserves.
Take the first step toward a peaceful resolution. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about hour our uncontested divorce services can help you and your family move forward with confidence and care.
meet attorney rebecca a. rainwater
EXPERIENCE YOU CAN TRUST
I have been practicing family law exclusively since 2011, bringing over a decade of experience to families in need of guidance and support. I also earned a certificate in Alternative Dispute Resolution from Pepperdine’s Straus Institute and have completed over 100 hours of specialized training in mediation and collaborative law. Known for my exceptional negotiation skills, dedication, and integrity, I offer families compassionate legal representation rooted in respect and a commitment to peaceful resolution whenever possible.